Hello Gorgeous,
WOW !!! My previous blogpost on " What a BOY should do in a relationship " draw in so much traffic flow into my blog *thankyou* *thankyou*.
So I've written the "sequel" which is " What a GIRL should do in a relationship ".
Actually girls are more sensitive/sensible to the things they do/say, so the following you might already know at the back of your brain :
MEN ARE SLOW
Well mostly.
The brain functionality of men tense to be slower.
They love to do/say things slowly and they HATE people rushing them ( or those impatient type of girls ).
PATIENCE is the key to keep your man honey.
Take your time guuuuuuuurrrrrrlll ... have coffee/manicure/do a mask or whatever ... just let them dooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo and sayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy things slowly.
I mean if they do/say the RIGHT things, won't it be better ???
At least, it won't spike off unnecessary quarrels.
LESS IS MORE
This one very important.
Men loveeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee those korean girls ( CLEAN LOOK I MEAN ) *full stop*.
Black hair, MINIMAL MAKE UP, t shirt and jeans.
Don't bother dressing up fashionably for them.
They will NEVER get it.
Infact they will feel why you dress until so attention seeking and "kua zhang"
DON'T BE TOO SMART
Well the correct phrase I should use is equal mentality.
If your man tenses to be more slower than you ( in terms of EQ/IQ ), don't OUTSMART them.
They don't necessary hate it but ...
they just wish/love to have the last say in things ( like their gf listening to them , like how smart/charming they are ).
Even if you really really BTH, just act blur or let them win.
Best if you could laugh WITH them ( *interaction* ), let them know you ADMIRE their smartness.
NEVER BE POSSESSIVE
It's good to keep up with your bf ( like asking where they're going or what's their plan for the day etc. )
BUT ... NEVER NEVER NEVER BE POSSESSIVE
They hate it.
Men love those girls who they NEED TO WORK HARD for ( or in another words, can't be bothered about them ).
The more you don't bother about them, the more THEY LOVEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE YOU.
They will feel that you are those "mysterious" type of girl and it will encourage them to wanna find out more about you.
One more thing, even if you love your bf like crazy, DON'T EVER LET THEM KNOW YOU LOVE THEM MORE.
They will prey onto that "opportunity" and *in the end* YOU GIRLS are at losing end.
MINDFUCK THEM
Well positively I mean.
Let them know how good looking you are and let them know there are "male friends" talking to you.
MILK THE OPPORTUNITY TO LET THEM KNOW THERE'S COMPETITION.
But don't do it often, or else it will backfire and they will think that you're a slut.
*Try this trick* SEND THEM A PHOTO OF HOW GOOD YOU LOOK TODAY ( Not those slutty types, but those very clean, happy, sunshine etc types )
Psychologically, they will feel insecure because they know that there might be a slight possibility of you attracting other male's attention ( which means *COMPETITION* )
WIN THE PARENTS OVER
Having your guy is just having 20% of him.
The rest lies with the PARENTS ( and families ).
ALWAYS ALWAYS ALWAYS PUT THE PARENT'S HEART AT FIRST.
What I mean is when you go over to his house to meet him, remember to always GREET the parents ( best is shower them with gifts ) and CONVERSE with them.
( alot of girls love to just greet the parents and then shy away from other conversation !!! Even if you know the conversation might be boring, FAKE it that you're INTERESTED !!! )
It will be at your advantage *trustme*.
You will be able to find out more about your boy plus *slowly* win his parents' heart over.
So when comes to quarell, *atleast* you'll know the parents can be at your side.
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Well these are a few pointers which I feel you girls should know.
If you have any great tricks up in your sleeve, feel free to comment below.
*muaks*
<3
Signing Off
Eric Lim
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Nice blog post lah! and i know what you are saying about winning the parents hahahhaa its very truuuue!
ReplyDeleteI really like this post! I am 30ish and still find it true
ReplyDeletei came from malaysia..just read your blog from Hanis Zalikha's blog. Well,i was a bit surprised about your writing. what can i say, u r amazing writer! :)
ReplyDeletelove it! feel free to come to my blog..:) i love the quotes about MAN in this entry!:)
Also from Malaysia and agree 100 gallons for dis post!!! =D
ReplyDelete...You think like a 18 year old boy.
ReplyDeleteI would not encourage people in relationships to play games with each other.
"The more you don't bother about them, the more THEY LOVEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE YOU.
They will feel that you are those "mysterious" type of girl and it will encourage them to wanna find out more about you.
One more thing, even if you love your bf like crazy, DON'T EVER LET THEM KNOW YOU LOVE THEM MORE."
Seriously? If you have to seemingly prevent yourself from expressing how much you love your boyfriend in case he takes advantage of it.
Easy. Not the right guy/girl.